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What to Say or Do When Parents Abuse Their Children in Public

It can be very difficult to watch the mistreatment of a child by an adult out of control. There are things you can do to help.

• Strike up a conversation with the adult. See if you can redirect his/her attention away from the child.
• "He seems to be trying your patience."
• "Looks like your little girl is having a hard time."
• "My child used to get upset like that."
• Praise the child or parent at the first opportunity.
• "What a beautiful child you have."
• "How old is she?"
• Avoid negative remarks or looks. These reactions are more likely to increase the parent’s anger and could make matters worse for the child.
• If the child is in danger, offer your assistance. For example, if the child is left unattended, stand by the child until the parent returns.
• If you have witnessed child abuse, call Child Protective Services or the local Police Department.